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Confidence Tips If You’re Scared to Show Up Online (We’ve Got You, Boo)

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Okay, let’s get real for a second: showing up online can feel terrifying—like you’re stepping onto a stage in front of a million people with no clue what the script is. Whether you’re posting a pic, recording a video, or gasp going live on Instagram, the pressure can be overwhelming. But hey, here’s the thing: if you want to grow your brand and connect with your audience, you’ve gotta get over that stage fright.

So, if you’re shaking in your boots at the thought of showing up online, relax, because we've got your back! We’ve pulled together some confidence-boosting tips that will help you slay the online game and make your brand shine like the fabulous queen you are.


1. Embrace the Imperfections—Perfect is So Last Year

First things first: perfect is a myth, girl. It’s a cute idea, but it’s totally overrated. The more you try to be perfect online, the more pressure you put on yourself. Newsflash: people don’t want to follow a robot—they want to connect with a real human being. Real means messy, real means raw, and real means relatable. So, instead of stressing over every pixel in your photo or every word in your caption, just embrace the imperfections.

Pro Tip: A perfectly imperfect post (with a little personality) will always get more love than one that looks like it was made in a corporate boardroom. Let your hair down—literally, if you want. 😎


2. Channel Your Inner Beyoncé (or Your Fave Icon)

When in doubt, think about how insert fave celebrity here would show up online. Channel your inner Beyoncé, Rihanna, or even Lizzo (because we all know that confidence is contagious). It sounds corny, but sometimes you have to fake it ‘til you make it.

When you start posting or recording, tell yourself, "What would Beyoncé do?" and suddenly, you’ll be strutting your stuff like you own the place.

Pro Tip: Start small. Maybe you’re not ready for a full-on Instagram live concert, but you can certainly rock a cute selfie or a boomerang of your coffee mug. Build that confidence one post at a time.


3. Get Comfortable with Your Voice (Literally)

Okay, let’s talk about video. If the thought of recording yourself speaking sends you into a spiral of existential dread, we totally get it. But guess what? Your voice is your superpower, and once you get over the initial awkwardness, it’ll be your fave tool for connecting with your audience.

Start by recording yourself talking about something you’re passionate about. Don’t worry about being polished—just let it flow. Remember, this isn’t a TED Talk (unless it is, in which case, we’re here for it). It’s a chance to show your audience your real, authentic self.

Pro Tip: Record your videos privately first, then watch them back and cringe a little (because it’s natural). Soon, you’ll get so comfortable with your voice that you’ll be like, "Who’s that confident babe on the screen?" Spoiler alert: It’s you.


4. Visualize the “Worst” Thing Happening (Then Laugh About It)

We get it—fear of rejection and judgment can be brutal. What if people don’t like your post? What if they unfollow you? What if your mom sees your weird dance video? (Let’s be honest, we’ve all had that nightmare.) But here’s the thing: Who cares? Social media is full of trolls and haters, but there’s also a lot of love out there. And no matter what, you’ll still be the coolest, most badass person in your own life.

Pro Tip: To fight the fear, do a little visualization exercise. Imagine the worst possible thing happening—like, everyone unfollowing you. Now, laugh about it. Because, really, who cares? Your tribe will find you, and the haters? They don’t matter.


5. Focus on Your Why—Not the FOMO

We’re not gonna lie: social media can feel a little like a popularity contest sometimes, and it can be easy to get stuck comparing yourself to everyone else. You see those influencers with thousands of followers and think, “How do I even compete with that?” Here’s the thing: you’re not supposed to compete. You’re supposed to be you. Focus on what makes your brand, your product, and your vibe unique, and show up with that in mind.

Pro Tip: Think about your why—why are you showing up on social media in the first place? If it’s to inspire, educate, or entertain, then keep that at the forefront. Don’t get distracted by FOMO or by the flashy stuff other people are doing. You do you.


6. Post Consistently (Because Practice Makes Confidence)

Confidence comes with practice. The more you post, the more you’ll realize that no one is actually paying as much attention to you as you think (and thank goodness for that). It’s all about consistency—so just keep putting yourself out there. Over time, you’ll start to notice how much more comfortable you get, and before you know it, you’ll be sharing stories and going live like it’s nothing.

Pro Tip: Set a posting schedule that feels manageable to you and stick with it. Even if you start small—say, once a week—consistency is key. Before you know it, you’ll be posting regularly without feeling like you’re going to pass out.


7. Let Mandy Clementine’s Seattle Social Media Team Do the Heavy Lifting

Okay, we get it—you don’t want to be the next viral sensation with a 24/7 posting schedule. That’s where we come in! If you’re still feeling unsure about how to show up on social media, let Mandy Clementine and our Seattle-based team take the reins. We’ll help you develop a social media strategy that plays to your strengths and gets you noticed for all the right reasons.

So, are you ready to step into the spotlight and let your brand shine? Let’s work together to create content that makes you feel confident and in control. Because when you’re ready to show up, we’ve got the strategy to back it up!

Get In Touch With Mandy Clementine’s Seattle Social Media Team

Ready to take the plunge and slay your social media game? Reach out to Mandy Clementine’s Seattle Social Media Team today and let’s get started. Whether you need help with content, strategy, or just a little confidence boost, we’re here to help you shine.

Remember: Confidence is a muscle. The more you flex it, the stronger it gets. ✨





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